
Introduction
Today is Father’s Day. The greatest need in our society today is for fathers who will rise up and assume their God-given role of responsibility in the family. Our text gives basic responsibilities for manhood; but when a man becomes a father, those responsibilities are expanded. Let’s look.
Read Micah 6:8
1. A Godly Father loves God
A. (Read Matthew 6:33) The basis upon which happiness is built and priorities of relationship.
B. If you do not have a right relationship with God, it is futile to think you can relate properly to others.
C. If you are running from God you will never have peace. Settle that matter first of all, (Isaiah 57:21)
2. A Godly Father loves his Wife
A. Most husbands assume love is sex. While that certainly is a part of love, it is not all, (Ephesians 5:25-33 ). Real love seeks to meet all the needs of another person. (See 1 Corinthians 13:1-13) for a definition of real love.
B. Romantic actions are not an abandonment of your manliness. Open the car door, pull out her chair at dinner, hold her hand and help make the beds, rinse out the tub when you’re finished, the list is endless.
C. Your sons are learning from you about how to treat their wives. One day they will treat their wives the same way you treat their mother.
3. A Godly Father loves his Children
A. Love is more than provision for material things. Don’t miss your children’s childhood; there is no second chance at childhood.
B. When discipline is required, do it in love, (Colossians 3:21). Don’t beat them up out of anger.
C. Children interpret the time spent with them as love. Forget “quality time” vs. “quantity time”
4. A Godly Father is a man of Integrity
A. Text: “. . . to do justly . . . walk uprightly. . .” “Integrity” has become almost a forgotten word. The highest elected office in our land is tainted with the smell of corruption and the president himself has a notorious reputation as a liar.
B. A member of the president’s cabinet commits suicide rather than face scrutiny for his financial dealings. Whitewater used to mean a good place to go canoeing instead of a political sewer. We are called to rise above that and be men of integrity.
C. It should permeate every area of our lives. In the workplace; an honest day’s toil, in the home; fulfilled promises, in personal business; prompt payment of obligations, in other relationships; commitment to fulfill my commitments.
5. A Godly Father is a role model of God
A. The image of a father nowadays is not always a good one. Over half the children in America grow up without a father in the home. Often abandoned by their father or the father is maligned.
B. Sexual abuse by the father is on the rise. Then, we tell the children that God is their Heavenly Father!
C. Small wonder that they are afraid of Him. God help us! Dad, you are shaping your child’s concept of his/her Heavenly Father. They see him like you.
Conclusion
The Word of God is challenging you to be a godly father today! Will you be a godly father to your children?
Image: Rene Asmussen | A sermon by Dr. Arnold Lastinger.
If this sermon was helpful to you, please consider leaving your feedback in the comments section at the bottom. It would be a great encouragement to me personally.
Thank you very much. Very simple yet very profound.
That was an excellent sermon. I want more explanation on the role model of God.
More than disappointed in your comment about the President of the USA. What ironic is that was presented to us the reader in your fourth point? “A Godly Father is a Man Of Integrity.” Integrity would have been applicable to you as you wrote these five qualities. We are all aware of his questionable integrity and apparent shortcomings. However, he is a professed Christian. I believe biblical examples in the fourth quality would have been more appropriate. I’m sure you have what you think is just cause, I’m sure you are a biblical scholar of some kind. I’m sure you… Continue »
Thank you so much for providing a sermon so relevant to me.
Great post. I have a got lot of insight from “Qualities of a Godly Father”. Keep it up.
I want to thank you for the wonderful sermon on the Qualities of a Godly Father. It will help many Fathers to learn the high standards that a Holy God expects of us fathers.
Great post, there’s so much to being a dad, it’s kinda scary sometimes 🙂 Parents should also remember that their children belong to the Lord and they are His children first. This would give us a brand new perspective on parenting.